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Notes From A Therapist About Relationships

What To Expect When You Have Couple Counselling - Sandra Harewood Counselling

What To Expect When You Have Couple Counselling

7th January 2021/in Counselling /by Sandra Harewood

Couples counselling isn’t complicated.

It’s a specific form of talking therapy where two people sit down with a counsellor to talk about their relationship.

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3 Things You Need to Know About Letting Go - Three Women Holding on To Multiple Shopping Bags Afraid Of Letting Them Go - Sandra Harewood Counselling

3 Things You Need to Know About Letting Go

30th December 2020/in Care For The Soul /by Sandra Harewood

Nature has so much to tell us about letting go. 

I’m looking out of my window here in London, England and I can see some evergreens, but some of the most striking trees are bare. They let go of their leaves some time ago, stripped bare by the autumn wind, naked and vulnerable. 

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Here’s How To Improve Your Self-Care Practice Today

23rd December 2020/in Care For The Soul /by Sandra Harewood

How do you nourish your body and mind and improve your self-care?

Self-care has never been more critical for everyone.

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One Thing You Should Know About The Pain Of Grief

16th December 2020/in /by Sandra Harewood

Grief is a natural part of life. Most people don’t get through life, avoiding it. 

Surprisingly we don’t just grieve when a person had died. We also grieve when a relationship has died, you’ve separated or divorced. But sometimes you are still in the trenches of the relationship processing its demise.

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Boundaries In Relationships: How To Know White Picket Fence In Front Of Green Shrub - When You Need To Take Control - Sandra Harewood

Boundaries In Relationships: How To Know When You Need To Take Control

7th October 2020/in Healthy Relationships /by Sandra Harewood

So what’s your favourite season? I love the autumn, and it’s definitely on its way! Right now, I’m looking outside my window and noticing the leaves blowing around in the light breeze. Some get blown off, and others cling to the branches of the trees.  And this got me thinking about boundaries in relationships. 

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Why Racism Is Like Being In An Abusive Relationship

4th August 2020/in Unhealthy Relationships /by Sandra Harewood

I am sure that you like me have been impacted, in one way or another, by events in the world right now.   For sure, George Floyd’s death has undoubtedly engaged the collective consciousness into action on racism.  

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What Happens When COVID – 19 Shines A Spotlight On Hidden Trauma

20th May 2020/in Trauma /by Sandra Harewood

While the world faces a single problem that of Coronavirus – COVID19, what I’ve noticed is that we are all responding to this pandemic in our very different ways.

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What A Therapist Wants You To Know About Starting Therapy

24th April 2020/in Counselling /by Sandra Harewood

April is Stress Awareness Month.

In 2020 because of COVID-19, there’s certainly a different more potent resonance.  The entire world, it would seem, is struggling to come to terms with Coronavirus.  And the world is talking about mental health and the stress of living with this virus.

These are stressful times.

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Recognise It! What You Should Know About Narcissistic Abuse [Infographic]

16th April 2020/in Unhealthy Relationships /by Sandra Harewood

  How do you know if your relationship is abusive? Are you simply two people who get triggered and can’t figure it out sometimes?  That wouldn’t be uncommon.  Maybe you feel guilty because you’ve not shown up as you best self.  And we all do things at times we regret.

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10 Simple Ways To Feel Calm And Grounded

9th April 2020/in Care For The Soul /by Sandra Harewood

As human beings, we are wired for survival.

The body is designed to respond to stressful situations and then return to its normal baseline when the danger has passed.

Our bodies are amazing!

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How To Stay Connected When Self-Isolating In Trying Times

1st April 2020/in Care For The Soul /by Sandra Harewood

The world has changed in a couple of weeks.

Less than a month ago, I was happy shaking hands with acquaintances.

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How To Protect Yourself When Self-Isolating With A Controlling Partner

26th March 2020/in Unhealthy Relationships /by Sandra Harewood

Home isn’t always a safe place.

And even if you do feel okay, maybe home it isn’t always a calm, peaceful place.

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