When Something in Your Relationship Shifts, and You’re Unsure What It Means
Relationships change. Sometimes gradually, through distance and disconnection. Sometimes, suddenly, through rupture, transition, or a moment of realisation that something must be faced.
At these relationship crossroads, what’s needed isn’t quick advice, but space to understand what is actually happening—and what it would mean to move forward with honesty and responsibility.
I specialise in working with women and couples at these turning points, creating the space to understand what is happening, what may need to change, and what a more conscious way forward could look like.
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When a relationship reaches a crossroads, different kinds of support are needed. I work with individuals and couples at these pivotal moments, offering both time-limited decision-making work and longer-term therapeutic support, depending on what is most appropriate.
We want to work on the relationship together
For couples committed to exploring their relationship, understanding patterns between them, and creating meaningful change.
I am trying to understand my own relationship crossroads
For women questioning their relationship and wanting to understand themselves, their patterns, and their choices before deciding what comes next.
One of us is unsure whether we want to continue
For couples where one partner is questioning the future of the relationship and you need space to understand what is possible before beginning couples therapy.
Relationships at a Turning Point
Meet Sandra
I’m a UKCP and BACP-registered psychotherapeutic counsellor and couples therapist. For over 15 years, I’ve supported women and couples through the changes and uncertainty that shape their relationships.
My work brings curiosity and depth to the patterns beneath relationship difficulties — helping individuals and couples understand not only what is happening between them, but what may be shaping it beneath the surface.
Alongside my couples work, I specialise in supporting women who are questioning their relationships and wanting to understand themselves more deeply before deciding what comes next.
Exploring Relationships, Change and Crossroads
Making Sense of a Changing Relationship
A reflective guide for women who feel something has shifted in their relationship and want to understand what is happening before deciding what comes next.