• Counselling & Coaching For Women and Couples at a Relationship Crossroads

    Clarity and support when a relationship reaches a turning point.

When Something in Your Relationship Shifts, & You’re Unsure What It Means

Relationships change. Sometimes gradually, through distance and disconnection. Sometimes, suddenly, through rupture, transition, or a moment of realisation that something must be faced.

At these relationship crossroads, what’s needed is not quick advice, but the space to understand what is actually happening — and what it would mean to move forward with honesty and responsibility.

I specialise in working with women and couples at these turning points, supporting thoughtful, grounded decisions about whether to stay, repair, or separate, and how to live with those choices with integrity.

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When a relationship reaches a crossroads, different kinds of support are needed. I work with individuals and couples at these pivotal moments, offering both time-limited decision-making work and longer-term therapeutic support, depending on what is most appropriate.

Meet Sandra

I’m a UKCP and BACP-registered psychotherapeutic counsellor and couples therapist. For over 15 years, I’ve supported women and couples through the moments of change and uncertainty that shape their relationships.

My work brings clarity, honesty, and deeper understanding to the patterns beneath disconnection and transition.

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Articles From My Blog

A woman in a green dress is looking at herself in the mirror - Taking Ownership The Transformative Power of Responsibility in Marriage
Eye glasses with paper eyes as lenses - The 3 Unconscious Ways You Are Blocking Intimacy - Sandra Harewood
Door Opening To Empty Chair - 21 Painful Losses You Might Not Expect In Divorce - Sandra Harewood Counselling
Broken Heart Shaped Biscuit - Should I Stay Married? - Sandra Harewood
Woman Holding Passport In Her Hands - Understanding Why Some Decisions Are Easier to Make - Sandra Harewood Counselling
Stack Of Books For Journalling Habit - 5 Habits That Keep Your Marriage Stuck - Sandra Harewood

Making Sense of a Changing Relationship

A simple relationship check-in for women questioning their relationship, feeling stuck, or trying to understand what has changed.

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