Category: Growing Closer & Strengthening Connection

These posts explore how to nurture a closer, stronger, more connected relationship.

You’ll learn how to strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and cultivate the emotional and relational skills needed to save your marriage—even if you’re still deciding whether to stay or leave.

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3 Reasons Why Being Honest About Your Emotions Matters in a Relationship

Sharing our feelings in a relationship matters.

There is a cost when we don’t and withhold what we feel. Read more

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How to Change Myself to Save My Marriage?: A Guide to Healing from Within

‘How to change myself to save my marriage?’ Have you found yourself reflecting on that, even though you doubt whether more effort will make any difference? Self-change isn’t about being solely responsible for saving the marriage. It’s about changing the one thing you can truly influence: yourself.

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Marriage can be one of the most rewarding aspects of life, but when it feels like it’s falling apart, it can also be one of the most painful. That’s when many people find themselves asking, ‘How can I change my partner? ‘

But perhaps the harder, more transformative question is: How can I change myself to save my marriage? Read more

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Why Your Partner Doesn’t Hear You (And How to Change That)

When your partner truly hears you, it changes everything. Learn a simple way to invite deeper understanding and connection in your conversations. Read more

Relationship Problems on Holiday: 7 Tips to Avoid Issues When Travelling

I remember returning from a holiday in the sun years ago. When I got home and opened my suitcase, to my shock and horror, I discovered that I’d brought back an unexpected guest—a live cockroach. My head nearly hit the ceiling. I had no idea that I had brought this little creature back with me. I wish I hadn’t! Read more

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Can This Marriage Be Repaired? Signs It’s Time for a Change

One of nature’s rules is change.

As we head into summer, it’s clear: the days are longer, the light is brighter, and nature is in full bloom before it begins to shift again.

Relationships are no different. They change. They evolve.

Over time, couples go through many transitions, and with each one, something familiar gives way, making space for something new to emerge. Read more

Bored But Still Together? Sad Woman Sat Hugging Here Knees - What Boredom in a Good Relationship Might Really Mean - Sandra Harewood

What To Do When You’re in a Good Relationship But You’re Still Bored

We’ve all seen this couple; maybe it’s you.

They sit across the table. The food’s warm, the house is quiet. The children (if they have them) are somewhere between okay and thriving. No one’s shouting. No one’s slamming doors. It’s civil and kind. Read more

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The Hidden Signs of Disconnection in Relationships And How to Heal Them

At their core, our intimate relationships are a meeting of lives, each with its own rhythm, history, and needs. However, these rhythms can become out of sync over time, leading to a sense of disconnection in relationships and an accompanying feeling of being misunderstood. Read more

Woman sitting on a cliff edge looking out on the ocean - Unlocking the Benefits of Emotional Awareness in Relationships - Sandra Harewood

Emotional Awareness in Relationships: Why Insight Often Fails to Change Reactions

Many couples understand far more about themselves than they can live out in the moment.

They can name their patterns, recognise old wounds, and even explain why certain conversations feel difficult, and yet, when emotions rise, they still find themselves reacting in ways they later regret. Insight is present, but it doesn’t reliably translate into change. 

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Emotional Awareness in Relationships: Why It Matters When You’re at a Crossroads

Maintaining a fulfilling and harmonious relationship can be challenging at the best of times and not least amid the demands and pace of contemporary life. Read more

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Why Patience in Relationships is Key to a Healthy Partnership

In a world dominated by rapid lifestyles, patience is a virtue often overlooked, especially within the complex dynamics of relationships. In modern society, this essential and sacred quality is not only scarce but frequently undervalued, overshadowed by the rush and immediacy that contemporary life demands. Read more