Loss of Self in Relationships: Discovering the Hidden Self
When we look in the mirror, we assume we see ourselves. But do we? Who is it that we are seeing?
Tag Archive for: conscious relationships
When a Relationship Changes
All relationships change; it’s simply part of being human and being in a relationship.
But people do not always immediately notice or acknowledge when that change happens. Somehow, it just seems to creep up and catch the unprepared couple by surprise. Read more
Uncertainty in Relationships: What Advent Tells Us About Waiting
Advent is a season of anticipation, preparation and waiting.
I can remember as a child, looking forward to receiving an Advent calendar filled with those delicious hidden pieces of chocolate. Read more
The Real Reason You Feel Unhappy in Your Marriage (It’s Not What You Think)
Most people do not want to wake up and have their first thought be about how unhappy they are in their marriage.
Happiness in a long-term relationship can feel elusive. Read more
Why Your Partner Doesn’t Hear You (And How to Change That)
When your partner truly hears you, it changes everything. Learn a simple way to invite deeper understanding and connection in your conversations. Read more
We Have Different Values: Should I Stay Or Go?
Our values play a key role in relationships, especially in marriage, and become obvious when they feel out of sync. Differing values can cause confusion and emotional distance, leaving you unsure about whether to stay, leave, or continue. Gaining clarity is essential. Read more
Couples Intensives: A Space for Healing and Growth
Healing often takes time, which is true.
Hearts broken by betrayal, neglect, or constant letdown need time to heal.
When one partner is considering leaving, there’s likely a real feeling that the chance for healing, both individually and as a couple, has passed.
Why Impatience Won’t Give You the Answers You’re Looking For
Impatience rarely introduces itself as fear or anxiety.
But often that’s exactly what it is.
Instead, impatience in relationships masquerades as urgency —a pressing need to resolve, fix, or move forward.
This is particularly true when we are trying to figure out whether to stay or leave.
At a Relationship Crossroads? Why This Moment Deserves Care, Not Crisis
Deciding whether to stay, to go, or to try again is never just a relationship decision. It’s a life decision.
I do this work because I believe these moments deserve to be met with care, honesty, hope and above all, heart. Here’s a glimpse into why. Read more
How Discernment in Relationships Can Help You Make the Right Choice
Discernment in a relationship at a crossroads is not simply about making good decisions. Read more